Without in any way denying the disappointment it means for a woman to feel that she can not have ch

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DN Monday, 03/09 addresses the increasing trend in Sweden, to women who want to become pregnant, itchy skin are trying to increase their chances by finding the "right days" for intercourse by using ovulation test. Two respondents specialists in gynecology and obstetrics interpreted it to mean that women today want more control over their barnaalstrande. But they were not entirely positive, partly because the tests are often misleading. In contrast, emphasized that the test has its place if the couple waited long for a desired pregnancy. Even a vendor of such a test meant that it has become more common to test is used in a manner not intended, and that women may even become "test depends".
That "having children" - it's no longer about "getting pregnant" - has increasingly become a project that seeks to control. An action that deep down is about to give himself entirely to a loved one become transformed into a gravelled expectation. When intercourse does not produce the desired results, this is tantamount to failure. This is repeated again and again in an even more tangible way when you want to control it using the test. And the sense of failure leads to increased stress for the next attempt, which in itself can reduce the body's chances of success. That this also can create stress in the couple's relationship negatively goes without saying.
In the Christian tradition regarded children as a gift, a gift you can not "order", but may receive, if and when it comes. It requires an openness to the future, not a requirement that must be met at all costs. But it is a gift that not everyone gets. This can be seen as nature's way of ensuring that there are few who can take care of children of parents who for some reason can not or will act as the child's parent. Or - and this is the modern approach - it is a medical problem that should be solved with various medical techniques. Though neither of these methods automatically gives the desired result, with repeated experiences of expectation and disappointment; not all achieve their aspirations how hard they try.
Without in any way denying the disappointment it means for a woman to feel that she can not have children, and that a man can be a father, I feel that a key question itchy skin is: Is it not the case that all new methods and techniques aimed at controlled itchy skin procreation, while helping to those who are not parents feel even more unsuccessful? That parenthood will be seen as a requirement to be a normal, successful human being? That a relationship becomes a successful relationship only if it results in a child? - I find this so, that very sad. Living in a relationship or single, childless, and have a rich life must be seen as a good alternative. As I see it, we need to spread an approach in our modern society, which does not emphasize parenting as a requirement in order to feel loved, valuable and successful.
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